Have you seen the adult movies where the woman spreads her cheeks and the guy with the humongous penis just shoves it in her anus and starts banging away mercilessly? You can be sure that if the woman isn’t spaced out on drugs – and that’s a rarity in the modern world of porn – then there has been some preparation beforehand. You just don’t get to see it in the movie because it would (i) ruin the continuity and (ii) be quite boring.
In the world of Hollywood porn, the stunningly beautiful “actresses” usually have enemas prior to getting butt-loved within an inch of their lives Shibuya Kaho .
But you aren’t a porn star (even if you wish you were). So, how do we get our women to DO IT? Well, for starters, more and more women are amenable to the idea, and these days some realize that it is such a common practice that their partners are going to expect it as a right. If you aren’t sure, don’t beat about the bush – get straight to the point. Ask her. Sex is such an integral part of any relationship that you have to get exactly what you want (and that’s mutual, by the way: if you don’t give her what she wants in bed, you’re in trouble too) or you are going to stray sooner or later, no doubt about it.
Anal sex encompasses more than just sticking your penis into someone’s anus, although that is the holy grail. The menu includes finger probing, or just rubbing the anus; annilingus (licking the anus, or even inserting the tongue); probing with toys or other objects (fruit & vegetables etc), and, finally, what the old-timers call sodomy. Whatever you call it, it feels great.
So, before we start anything, we need some lubrication. People argue over what is best, most hygienic etc, but the most important thing to remember is any lube is better than no lube. There’s a movie starring Victoria Givens where she takes on about 100 or more men in an anal gang-bang, and on the cover and it claims she didn’t use any lube. For mere mortals, this is not recommended! Good old Vaseline is the best for anal sex, followed by oil-based lube and then water-based lube.